Very interesting about this theory. Become the becon of light. Stop chasing the people to provide support, become the support you were always meant to be.
There are many people in your life who do not deserve your devotion to them, always showing up and rescuing them. They do not deserve your friendship in quite times, muchless a storm. And most of them do not want it anyways. Stop being the rescuer only to be rejected and abondanded when you need someone.
Its time to start facing reality from a different perch. One of calm awareness. Awareness that you can never change a person know matter how much you might love them or over give to them. They will be who they were always meant to be. And if that is the case, then you have to let them go anyway for your own stability.
I had to find ways to say goodbye to these people. Friends and family alike. They bring nothing to the table for me other than what they can get out of me by way of using my love for them. It is so hard to see this kind of shelfishness residing in many around me. Its hard to stop being that type of person. It is hard to not be there when you see things happening that are so bad and you cant stop it. Number one, its not what they want, and number two, its not up to be the rescuer anymore. They have their own mistakes and storms to go through.
Our bible tells us "to everything there is a season". People do not come with instructions. But they do have an assigned season. And no matter how long or how hard we try to hold on, the season changes. People are this way. Me included. Remember that!
I too change. I am becoming apart of the roots now. And I can support the seasons. But I cannot stop the change.
Be someones becon. It doesnt have to be blood relations. It just has to have somewhat the same values, morals, and respect as you in order to move through storms safely to port.
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