Hello party people!
Apparently, Drake has things to say ABOUT me, but won't say TO me. Then he runs and blocks me so I can not refute the lies in the face of all his adoring followers. So I would like to open up this post for him to feel free to connect/comment.
Or do not. Doesn't matter. I am going to post the facts TO EVERY little thing he stated. No matter how minute and I will probably add in some just for shits and giggles.
Mason, thank you for being better than that! I was super surprised by your comment! But I guess we all have to learn things in our own ways.
I use this Blog as a way to mentally lay stuff out for me, and it allows my counselor to see the things I am saying. Say Hi to Jill everyone! (Sorry Jill). I do not have a large following like on FB and so I use this as a way to form a small community to which I communicate. If you are here, then you were either invited, or you are stalking. Do not care which really. But understand, these are just my pages and sharing them with my counselor allows me to be cautious to others. I will never seek to bully, to ridicule, or to disallow a person to have what ever feelings they want to have. But when a person comes at me, or attacks me, she, Jill, follows and lets me know how I handled these situations now. If you need Jills info, I will be glad to give it out! But know this, I will not seek to interfere in anyone of these childrens lives anylonger!
Ball has always been in each of your courts. And that is up to you now.
I am ok with all that Drake accuses me of. Those are his feelings and he is allowed to have them. His thoughts on situations and certain recollections of others, are a bit different than mine. But I can bring all my reciepts. So I will be snap shotting them and you can follow that so-called money trail to deduce the truth from fiction. Because FACTS matter. Reciepts matter!
WE in fact PAID $6500.00 for the beach house! Mike's account, BUT IT WAS OUR MONEY! Do not get that twisted! It was me who sat here and filled out Mike's disability paperwork. We all know it wasn't him who did that! And if it wasn't yourself, then that leaves it to ME! The running him to and from doctors and hospitals! IT WAS MY MONEY AS WELL! THAT WAS MY VACATION. HIS VACATION! Where each of you WERE INVITED! Our week was week one. We paid for that week in its entirity and Ash and the partner sent $150 to Mason, so she could collect on Mike's behalf. IF THEY HAD IT! IF NO ONE HAD IT, it was not an issue. Ashley and the partner decided to do both weeks and paid Mason $300 for a TWO WEEK VACATION. NO ONE WAS TO ARRANGE ROOMS UNTIL EVERYONE WAS THERE! Ash and the partner get there and claim dibs on a room I had already planned out! NO ONE ASKED ME ABOUT THIS. They deferred to Mason. It WAS NO ONES place to do that UNTIL I GOT THERE other than Mason! Nonetheless, I let it ride.
UNTIL, the person who travels the furtherst...from Arizona, with an autistic child, comes in and has to STAY IN A ROOM WITH NO LOCK ON THE DOOR! That morning that everything went down, all I wanted was to ask them two to switch rooms for the last 2 nights of Chaley being there so she could get some sleep. THATS ALL I WANTED! They, Ash and the partner, were staying the whole next week. Blake and Alyssa were not! They were the only option that made sense to switch. For the love of God, ALL I WANTED WAS THEM TO SWITCH ROOMS. She was the one who started the scene telling me "No they did not have time for a chat"!
YOU DO NOT TELL YOUR HOST NO! THEY WERE THE ONES WHO THOUGHT THEY COULD CONTROL THE NARRATIVE. (I can't even really say "they" here, as I have been on many a vacation with Ash and this HAS NEVER happened before). I just let them know that would not be the case. I have no qualms with dikes, gays, or whatever anyone wants to call them! Hell if you want to live under the illusion they are straight, GO FOR IT! I probably did call her names in a deragatory way. I was angry at the piousness she thought she was entitled too. You can date any and every one you want to, I do not care. My name calling does not mean I dislike anyone. It means I am pissed. Keep reading, I call you names in this post. I call myself names. It doesn't mean anything.
EVERYONE, meaning me and Mike, Mason and Cody, had ALL MADE CONSESSIONS for room arrangements. THE ONLY ONES WHO DID NOT, WAS THE ONE WHO WANTED TO CONTROL EVERYTHING...and when I say everything...I mean everything! And we all know THAT is not Ashley. So yea, use the power of deduction! (Again, I have no quelms with her at all other than this vacation trip, that SHE refuses to accept her accountbility for, all while demanding I apologize constantly!)
If anyone of you would but look at the time line, clarity will come out! It's all there! Jill and I have reconstructed those facts. I will be posting that story.
I am not pointing fingers when I do it! I am doing it for CLARAFICATION! FOR MYSELF AS WELL AS WHO EVER SEEKS TRUTH! If you do not seek the truth, then do not read it! Simple!
About me talking shit about MY family...NEWSFLASH...IT'S MY FAMILY TOO! Mine first as a matter of fact! Believe it or not, I can do that! You can do that! Or not. Your choice. But I will call things the way they ARE. NOT for the fantasy any one of you want or need them to be. That's just FACTS!
You all accuse me of gossiping and its funny as hell, because you accuse me of what you yourselves do! YOU CANNOT THROW STONES AND GET MAD WHEN IT GETS THROWN BACK AT YOU! Understand this, I do not care that you call me a gossiper. If I am, it is only to my sister, as YOU! Take that shit elsewhere Drake.
What I do in fact know is I have never been fired for talking any kind of anything. That is so funny! So again, name me a job please, that this alledgedly happened at? Can't defend what I am unaware of or SIMPLY NOT TRUE!
I can not tell anyone what I do not know, DRAKE! I have no idea what you and Mason have issues over other THAN the beach. I never realized I had damaged either of you so bad! So that so called "intervention" yall tried to do at the beach was halarious with all that was going on at that time. So sorry, no. I never recieved that memo. Taking to FB doesn't help you or your case either when you BLOCK the very person you attack! Just a side note and some food for thought!
Now, about the steps and evesdropping on you and Masons "insecurities" GIVE ME A BREAK! I never took EITHER of you as a pansy ass! The only time I eves dropped is when I knew you two to be up to no good. And 9 out of 10 times I was on the phone with my sister and we would laugh at you because kids think they are smarter than the parents. We were laughing because it WAS US not that long before it was YOU TWO. Trust me...YOUR day is coming! You will know what I know. I am sorry if you felt I "traumatized" you by doing that. I would need specifics in order to gage any more clarification than that. But generally, if I did that, it was never to hurt either one of you. But you are valid in how you feel. And I can understand that.
What money have I ever STOLE from your sister? Are you serious here? Why not we chat about what I GAVE to you and your sister BEFORE you accuse me of stealing $20, if that is so! Because lets face it, UNLESS I GAVE IT TO YOU....YOU DIDN'T HAVE ANY! So YES PLEASE...I am begging you....LETS TALK ABOUT THAT. It was ME who talked pops into getting Mason her car. It was me who bought and paid for yours and her cell phones! It was ME who paid for the insurances on both yalls vehicles during this time. COME ON DRAKE...LETS TALK ABOUT IT! I did not OWE you nor she any of that! They were luxuries I AFFORDED TO BOTH OF YOU.
Lets see....Marines. Yes, Drake went into the marines directly after graduating highschool. I had to run around and set up your bank account and take care of the things here I had already been taking care of, eg. car insurance, cell phone, buying all your stuff that every average 18 year old needs. Sending packages out every other week for the STUFF YOU needed. I was doing all I could to help YOU. YOU HAD NO JOB! Your father sure as hell won't going to step up and do anything for either one of you kids! Neither was anyone else on that side willing to do that. So ya'll can have them. Coddle them. Love on them. Go for it! All you! This was where we actually merged our phones onto one so I could manage them while you were away. I PAID FOR THEM UPFRONT. YOU DID NOT HAVE MONEY! We did that to HELP YOU BUILD YOUR CREDIT AS WELL. That is why I allowed it to be in your name. It wasn't for me! Yes I benefitted from it, but Drake we talked that one out! And you know it!
When YOU went into the military that was YOUR FIRST PAYING JOB! And your checks went straight into your account and YOU HAD THAT ACCESS. All the running and paying for things up to YOUR first paycheck was solely on ME! I never asked for any of that back! I am YOUR MOM! It is my job to help you when you need it! BECAUSE, REST ASSURED, I NEVER GOT ANY HELP FROM YOUR BROKE PITIFUL ASS FATHER YOU NOW WANT TO ACT JUST LIKE! Taking credit for things HE HAS NOT DONE and blaming people when his shit fails! MIRROR IMAGE of your dad here Drake.
While you were in the Marines, you get a USAA card in the mail and I put it in your desk drawer in Aug/Sept of 2014. Drake, you can varify that as I am sure you have those statements. I told YOU about this card when it came in and where I had put it.
So, October of 2014 Mason starts planning for her wedding. I was paying all I could to help her out, as she had two littles and was stretched. So I ASKED DRAKE when he called one night if I could activate and use his USAA card to help pay for all the wedding stuff we still had yet to get. Begrudgingly, he said yes. I told him I would pay if off and there would be no issues. I think the line of credit was $2500.00. I used $1500.00 of that credit line! I had paid $800 on the card for the first months cycle and then handed him $700 cash to pay off the card as soon as he was home on leave, which was around thanksgiving. I actually asked him if he wanted the cash or wanted me to just pay it. He said to me standing in our dining room, as he was getting ready to walk out the door to go meet his friends in Farmville, "I don't have any cash on me, so I'll take care of it". Drake, I beg you...post the reciepts!
What you did with the $700 is on YOU. NOT ME! If you did not pay your card and fell into default, that is on YOU. I paid for all we used leading up to Mason's wedding. I have my own BANK reciepts FROM THAT TIME. The $800 I paid from my account to USAA. And the $700 cash I withdrew for other purposes but used to pay you instead! All in this time period! Falsly telling people I maxed out your card is not the truth! YOUR RECIEPTS WILL SHOW YOU THIS! Bring em!
I have never NOT worked! I had and HAVE a serious back issue that has landed me out of commission from time to time. I can't change that! I am now officially having to go through the process of my own disability because of those back issues.
Think I WANT to be here? Hell no! I do not want to be here! I have no choice at this very moment! Everyone I thought I had always had their backs all of sudden could care less about me! I have had a very lucrative and successful career! You think I want to leave THAT? To be forced out because of back issues? That was MY DREAM POSITION! What I strived for! All the sacrifices of MY TIME with school away from you guys, to land like this? Then Mike has his heart attack and everything falls apart for us. Its life. But we keep on keeping on!
I have not ever LEECHED off anyone, at any time, in my life! Except for you PAYING the cell phone bill since January of THIS YEAR, if that is what this leeching is about! All last year we worked together and payed in rotation or if you didn't have it, I did and vise versa. I told you I was being taken out of work in January and I could not afford to make any payments until I get my disability. You told me "no worries mom, me and court are good, I got it!". That is what YOU SAID TO ME. Then I get a text saying your cutting our lines and you aren't going to discuss it and thats that. I DID NOT have a melt down. I told Mike what was going on and that we had to switch our lines. I talked with Jill, which she can confirm if anyone wants to know facts, and decided I don't need a phone for a while. I am placing to much of my time into a phone and not facing some things I need to deal with. She very adamently agreed. I was just telling you I was done with these phones. I texted you JUST LAST NIGHT TO LET YOU KNOW I HAVE TAKEN CARE OF IT. I wanted you to be informed. It was the way you did it that lead me to determine other factors of this ongoing relationship. "Not going to discuss it with you", I mean what the hell is that about?
You sit there on face book and attack me without allowing me any acknowledgement for a rebutul and then you try to convience that very same population that "your too meek and weak when it comes to me and my manipulation tactics". ARE YOU SERIOUS????
Come on big boy...put them big boy panties on and stop acting like a pansy already!
I take absolutely NOTHING AWAY FROM YOU DRAKE! I give you credit! Hell I'll give you ALL THE CREDIT! Figure that shit up and send me an amount. I'll pay you right now! My phone and Mikes phone is $45 a month x 2= $90 x 5 = $450...sound right? Ill send it over to you bubs...I do not want to infringe on YOUR DOLLAR.
The phone bill was expencive because YOU had how many laptops on it? One for work, one for play, one for gaming, and your phone, which was recently purchased! My phone and Mikes phone I paid off early last year when I was the one making those payments because you had a lot on your plate! And I stopped the jet pack, which was $10/mo. when I stopped traveling in February of 2022 after Mikes heart attack. I never haggeled you over those laptops you didn't use. I just paid and that was that!
Ok, whats next.
Oh Oh, yes...guilty! I love me some candy crush! Monopoly GO too! And I do love a casino, although I haven't been recently because of my back and sitting long periods doesn't help these days. So I have stayed away....for now! Maybe one day I can sit long enough to enjoy my casino games again. Maybe. We will see. But I know you Drake...don't cast stones at me and try to shame me...tsk tsk! Doesn't work like that son. No shame in my story. YOU like the casino just like any other average person, so do not act like that is some grand secret or gotcha moment! Like all I want to do is "gamble your money away". First off, its always me who hands out hundreds! It's you and Mason who lend out the $20s. So yea, check that please!
Another NEWSFLASH HERE: I have your bank info now! I'll post all of it here if you want me to prove it! I have had your bank info since you went into the military Drake. I have no idea what internet bill you elude too so I will need a reciept on that one as well. $350 dollars? Candy crush? Yea, I'll need to see that one! And never heard about it until your FB post. But if it is true, and I'm not saying it ain't, I would have paid it! So make sure you send over the payment reciepts where I paid for it, however it was paid for! DO not sit there and act like I have never paid you back for EVERYTHING and MUCH MORE than you have ever done for me! Because I have. You know it and so do I.
Naw dude, you blocked me because your a pansy ass! YOU had something going on and you did not want to tell me about it. That's why you blocked me. Because I know for a fact you BORROWED money from a source and did not want me to know about it. Do not play that game Drake. Saying you blocked me from calling because I was harrasing you over something! That is dead wrong dude and you know it!
You see all this above????
You realize its NOT normal right?
You realize you have some issues that are way bigger than anything I could ever say and do, correct?
Look, I am not here to embarass you. I know you did what you did to try and embarass me. But the truth is, I was informed about your post from a person who simply texted me "Love you".
I texted back immediately "o no, what has one of my kids done?" And I got a laughing face emoji back because he KNOWS ME SO WELL that he KNEW WHAT YOU STATED WAS NOT TRUE! Every bit of it! The only ones that commented are people who DO NOT KNOW ME AND WHAT I HAVE DONE FOR YOU AND YOUR SISTER!
The story you told Drake, it can be your truth. I will give you that! But it is not factual truth.
Even your girlfriend has said the problem with you and Mason is that you are both spoiled ass rotten! And I did that! I am guilty of this! And to my detrement, it shames me now!
For you and your sister to see me in such a low light is so hurtful to me as your mom. I do not know if you both need to feel apart of the growing population that blames their parents for everything and makes up stuff to fit that....but it is not true! NONE of what you said is factually true! And like I asked, if it is, PLEASE, let me know. But I'll need ALL THE RECIEPTS. Because I do not trust you and your sister's thought processes anymore.
I have no problem owning my shit when I am wrong. But you also have to know I have no problem fightening back when I have been WRONGED! Every person reading this knows that about me, if nothing else!
As I stated in my earlier Blog that apparently made you angry, you have GOT TO STOP PAINTING ME TO BE THE EVIL ONE. You and Mason both!
Mason needs bounderies from herself and her lies she tells people. In order to keep those lies safe, she has to keep her distance. I get it! I would too if I were like that.
I have never not fought for anything or given everything in my power to the both of you! EVER! I sit here fighting for a relationship that I am now fully understanding has never involved any kind of love for me, as your mom first, if NOTHING ELSE!
I do not need to be in your lives. I get that! But YOU do not get to make up things in your head about me either, and then block me from a post that will allow me to state my truth!
That makes you a bully Drake! And I never thought I would see the day when bullying would come from you of all the people I know!
Tell me son, what happened in the marines? Because I would like to hear your version of what I know. Lets chat about that!
Lets talk about you bailing out your dad from a drug binge and having to play props for him? Lets talk that out. That is why I am here. To help resolve these very sensitive issues you apparently have against no one but me.
Own your shit before you dump trash at my door, son. You can't embarass me because I live my life in truth. So how bout it? Wanna talk?
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